A few weeks ago, I posted a blog entry about what’s going on. Well, today I opened up WordPress to post what’s really going on, what’s really happening and what’s really on my mind.<\/p>\n
After writing and jotting down the specific things I wanted to cover and writing a few paragraphs, I hit the delete key. I used to never do that but since I stopped sharing it all on Twitter, Facebook and right here (beginning around mid-December), I’ve had over a dozen friends all in their 40s tell me, “I’m glad you changed what you say online. Try to keep some stuff offline and only among friends.”<\/p>\n
So, despite that fact I want to tell you about my health, my job, my life, my little projects, my relationships with friends and my dating life. There are so many things I want to share with you guys not because any of you give a crap but because it’s my own sort of therapy and way I make many of my decisions which is to simply talk things out.<\/p>\n
Lately, I haven’t done that. Has my life improved? Yes. Have there been things I wish I had worked out and gotten online feedback from first? Yes. I’m still in this transition of sharing or not sharing things online. It feels absolutely bizarre to not put things online, check in at locations and share my financial and health data via iPhone TwitPics. It’s still a period of growth for me and a period of trying new things. I’m not sure how it will end but the path has lead me to some new things and all at a perfect time.<\/p>\n
Man, I wish I could say some of these things that are going on but those of you who know me, also know how to reach me and how to message me and you all have and it means a lot. Thanks for reading.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A few weeks ago, I posted a blog entry about what’s going on. 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