{"id":6928,"date":"2017-07-18T15:22:23","date_gmt":"2017-07-18T15:22:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/?p=6928"},"modified":"2017-07-10T15:23:59","modified_gmt":"2017-07-10T15:23:59","slug":"linked-how-to-live-alone-without-losing-your-shit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2017\/07\/18\/linked-how-to-live-alone-without-losing-your-shit\/","title":{"rendered":"Linked: &#8220;How to Live Alone Without Losing Your Shit&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='__iawmlf-post-loop-links' style='display:none;' data-iawmlf-post-links='[{&quot;id&quot;:2814,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/tonic.vice.com\\\/en_us\\\/article\\\/ezwadk\\\/how-to-live-alone-without-losing-your-shit&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/web-wp.archive.org\\\/web\\\/20190428025751\\\/https:\\\/\\\/tonic.vice.com\\\/en_us\\\/article\\\/ezwadk\\\/how-to-live-alone-without-losing-your-shit&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-11-04 01:50:59&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:404},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-11-26 16:36:43&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:404},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-03-10 16:34:27&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:404}],&quot;broken&quot;:true,&quot;last_checked&quot;:{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-03-10 16:34:27&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:404},&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;}]'><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tonic.vice.com\/en_us\/article\/ezwadk\/how-to-live-alone-without-losing-your-shit\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">via Vice<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>When you have your own place, and your best friend no longer sleeps in the next room, I imagine it becomes even more difficult to not gravitate toward digital interactions\u2014tweeting your followers, live-streaming your day, or Skyping whomever. But if the internet is your only connection to the world outside of your empty apartment, there are fundamental human experiences you&#8217;ll miss out on. Experiences that are much more satisfying than whatever is on your phone.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>\n&#8220;When you engage someone in a face-to-face relationship, there&#8217;s something very radical that happens,&#8221; Gaztambide explains. &#8220;We pick up on certain facial cues, signs of emotion, and the dynamics of somebody&#8217;s speech\u2014and naturally, without thinking about it, we put them together and mimic those reactions.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>\nThat mimicry tightens the bond we organically have with that person. &#8220;We get into a process of talking, responding, and reacting that we&#8217;re pre-wired for.&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I\u2019m guilty of being a compulsive social networker. Even after leaving Facebook &amp; Twitter, I still need that human interaction and it\u2019s hard to truly be anti-social.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"via Vice: When you have your own place, and your best friend no longer sleeps in the next&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"apple_news_api_created_at":"2017-07-18T15:22:59Z","apple_news_api_id":"c18b1ed6-cf88-446a-bf6e-bd046ce685f2","apple_news_api_modified_at":"2017-07-18T15:23:01Z","apple_news_api_revision":"AAAAAAAAAAD\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/w==","apple_news_api_share_url":"https:\/\/apple.news\/AwYse1s-IRGq_br0EbOaF8g","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"middle","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":["https:\/\/news-api.apple.com\/sections\/a6dbab72-c794-3987-8514-c419907b32a3"],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_custom_appearance":"","csco_disable_excerpt_posts_layout":false,"csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6928","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-linked","7":"cs-entry","8":"cs-video-wrap"},"apple_news_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb3IC4-1NK","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8264,"url":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2020\/07\/10\/linked-re-imagine-meeting-room-experiences-with-teams-enabled-devices-for-shared-spaces\/","url_meta":{"origin":6928,"position":0},"title":"Linked: Re-imagine meeting room experiences with Teams-enabled devices for shared spaces","author":"Adam Chandler","date":"July 10, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Microsoft Tech Community: To help our customers navigate this new, hybrid working environment, today we\u2019d like to share some new and reimagined capabilities in Teams-enabled meeting rooms that offer touchless experiences, support inclusive collaboration between remote and in-person attendees, and help remind teams to practice social distancing in meeting rooms.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Linked&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Linked","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/category\/linked\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":8253,"url":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2020\/06\/10\/linked-question-act-evolve\/","url_meta":{"origin":6928,"position":1},"title":"Linked: Question. 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