{"id":5655,"date":"2016-04-08T14:23:49","date_gmt":"2016-04-08T14:23:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/\/?p=5655"},"modified":"2016-03-23T14:34:41","modified_gmt":"2016-03-23T14:34:41","slug":"linked-why-dont-i-know-any-single-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2016\/04\/08\/linked-why-dont-i-know-any-single-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Linked: &#8220;Why don\u2019t I know any single men?&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.harvard.edu\/philg\/2016\/03\/19\/why-dont-i-know-any-single-men\/\">Philip Greenspun&#8217;s Weblog<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>From the point of view of having the children that they want prior to the exhaustion of their fertility and from the point of view of financial security, these women would have been better off spending their 18-22-year-old years having sex with married men rather than attending college. That\u2019s not to suggest that 18-year-old child support profiteer is the optimum lifestyle for every American woman, but the fact that it would yield a better outcome measured against their own goals than what the women we know have accomplished suggests that they pursued a pretty bad life strategy. Is it the case that the vast majority of women who set out on the high-education, high-achievement path end up with a desirable (to them) partner and children? So we\u2019re just seeing a handful of outliers and therefore the strategy actually has a good expected outcome but with some risk?]<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Very interesting.<\/p>\n<p>That first comment though:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>In what world would I ever want to start a relationship with any woman over the age of 30?<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Jerk.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Philip Greenspun&#8217;s Weblog: From the point of view of having the children that they want prior to the&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","apple_news_api_created_at":"2016-04-08T16:45:32Z","apple_news_api_id":"03340ab4-2792-4806-8ccf-9be143d42af6","apple_news_api_modified_at":"2016-04-08T16:45:32Z","apple_news_api_revision":"AAAAAAAAAAD\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/w==","apple_news_api_share_url":"https:\/\/apple.news\/AAzQKtCeSSAaMz5vhQ9Qq9g","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_custom_appearance":"","csco_disable_excerpt_posts_layout":false,"csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5655","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-linked","cs-entry","cs-video-wrap"],"apple_news_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb3IC4-1td","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1917,"url":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2011\/03\/18\/linked-mastering-the-at-home-dinner-date\/","url_meta":{"origin":5655,"position":0},"title":"\u2605 Linked: Mastering the at-home dinner date","author":"Adam Chandler","date":"March 18, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Great post for the single men out there... 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