{"id":4423,"date":"2015-01-13T16:44:00","date_gmt":"2015-01-13T16:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adam-jackson.net\/blog\/?p=4423"},"modified":"2015-01-12T17:22:30","modified_gmt":"2015-01-12T17:22:30","slug":"linked-how-we-end-up-marrying-the-wrong-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2015\/01\/13\/linked-how-we-end-up-marrying-the-wrong-people\/","title":{"rendered":"Linked: &#8220;How we end up marrying the wrong people&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>via\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/thephilosophersmail.com\/relationships\/how-we-end-up-marrying-the-wrong-people\/\">thephilosophersmail.com<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>The time has come for a third kind of marriage. The marriage of psychology. One where one doesn\u2019t marry for land, or for \u2018the feeling\u2019 alone, but only when \u2018the feeling\u2019 has been properly submitted to examination and brought under the aegis of a mature awareness of one\u2019s own and the other\u2019s psychology.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I read this a few months ago and forgot to link to it. Going through a few old articles this week to share here. This one really stood out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"via\u00a0thephilosophersmail.com: The time has come for a third kind of marriage. The marriage of psychology. 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