{"id":2852,"date":"2011-08-02T21:58:02","date_gmt":"2011-08-03T01:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adam-jackson.net\/blog\/?p=2852"},"modified":"2011-08-02T21:58:02","modified_gmt":"2011-08-03T01:58:02","slug":"50-divorce-tips-for-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2011\/08\/02\/50-divorce-tips-for-men\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2605 &#8220;50 Divorce Tips for Men&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/chris.pirillo.com\/50-divorce-tips-for-men\/\">Chris Pirillo<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>There is a reason why people warn you about the \u201crebound\u201d relationship. Consider yourself vulnerable, and don\u2019t be too eager to jump into another serious relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Rule of thumb: one month of singleness for every year of marriage. If you have been married for many years, tell yourself to not be in any hurry to find another partner (for any kind of serious relationship \u2013 including another marriage). Slow down, take your time, and give an appropriate rest to the relationship you are ending.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is one of 50 tips. This is crucial for any man that is dating as well. Dating, for many men is very much like marriage. Don&#8217;t believe the movies where sex just happens and guys get laid CONSTANTLY. Life is about meaningful relationships and you may have 1-5 in your entire life. After a year together, you are doing &#8220;married things&#8221; for the most part. Even though there is no legal paperwork, this tips list is great for ANY MAN who is entering into or is in a long-term relationship. Great tips!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Chris Pirillo: There is a reason why people warn you about the \u201crebound\u201d relationship. 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