{"id":2555,"date":"2011-06-13T18:19:06","date_gmt":"2011-06-13T22:19:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adam-jackson.net\/blog\/?p=2555"},"modified":"2011-06-13T18:19:06","modified_gmt":"2011-06-13T22:19:06","slug":"this-is-not-ok-cupid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2011\/06\/13\/this-is-not-ok-cupid\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2605 &#8220;This is not ok, cupid.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='__iawmlf-post-loop-links' style='display:none;' data-iawmlf-post-links='[{&quot;id&quot;:12831,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/thisisnotokcupid.tumblr.com&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/web-wp.archive.org\\\/web\\\/20220510140802\\\/https:\\\/\\\/thisisnotokcupid.tumblr.com\\\/&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-11-05 22:41:11&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:503},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-02-09 06:01:48&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200}],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-02-09 06:01:48&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;}]'><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thisisnotokcupid.tumblr.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">via some Tumblr Blog<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>This is essentially just a place for me to post creepy messages from OKCupid.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The frequency of the posts here makes me\u00a0perceive\u00a0this as\u00a0legitimate. I&#8217;ve met enough people, read enough things and explored the human\u00a0psyche\u00a0enough to have very few doubts that this is fake.<\/p>\n<p>Humans are amazing creatures.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;&#8221;If you have something that you don&#8217;t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn&#8217;t be doing it in the first place,&#8221; is a quote from Eric Schmidt of Google. I&#8217;m completely on his side with this one. That&#8217;s why I use my real first &amp; last name on every social network. I&#8217;m adamJackson on okcupid for example.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"via some Tumblr Blog: This is essentially just a place for me to post creepy messages from OKCupid.&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_custom_appearance":"","csco_disable_excerpt_posts_layout":false,"csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2555","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-linked","7":"cs-entry","8":"cs-video-wrap"},"apple_news_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb3IC4-Fd","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":3699,"url":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2012\/04\/11\/thoughts-on-cabin-living-aka-living-anywhere-but-a-city\/","url_meta":{"origin":2555,"position":0},"title":"\u2605 Thoughts on Cabin Living aka, living anywhere BUT a city","author":"Adam Chandler","date":"April 11, 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"This post could be a bit premature. 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