{"id":2038,"date":"2011-03-24T11:43:37","date_gmt":"2011-03-24T15:43:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adam-jackson.net\/blog\/?p=2038"},"modified":"2011-03-24T11:43:37","modified_gmt":"2011-03-24T15:43:37","slug":"home-is-wherever-im-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2011\/03\/24\/home-is-wherever-im-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2605 Home is Wherever I\u2019m With You"},"content":{"rendered":"

Jessica Roy<\/a> speaking on the fear and excitement of moving in with a boy for the first time:<\/p>\n

Now that I am living with someone I love, I have to learn to fold his idiosyncrasies and quirks into my own way of doing things. He is a veritable litter robot, leaving change and little scraps of paper wherever he goes, so I am constantly picking up dimes and old receipts from odd places. His baby grand piano takes up approximately 3\/4ths of our bedroom; dishes pile up in the sink at a disgraceful rate. \u201cThank you for tolerating me,\u201d he says with a wry smile. I used to say, \u201cI\u2019m not\u00a0tolerating<\/em> you, I love you!\u201d but now I just say, \u201cYOU\u2019RE WELCOME.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I’ve been reading Jessica’s blog for nearly a year. A New Yorker turned San Franciscan who blogs the emotions and cyclones of life through her eyes. I rarely read “girly blogs” but her’s is a winner. Highly recommended.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Jessica Roy speaking on the fear and excitement of moving in with a boy for the first time:…\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_custom_appearance":"","csco_disable_excerpt_posts_layout":false,"csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_hide_featured_image":false,"_jetpack_featured_image_duplicate_dismissed":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2038","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-linked","cs-entry","cs-video-wrap"],"apple_news_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb3IC4-wS","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5922,"url":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2016\/07\/10\/linked-securing-a-bittorrent-sync-ec2-instance\/","url_meta":{"origin":2038,"position":0},"title":"LInked: “Securing a BitTorrent Sync EC2 Instance”","author":"Adam Chandler","date":"July 10, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"via Ash Furrow: I\u2019ve been trying to move away from online services that allow easy mass surveillance. 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