{"id":1303,"date":"2010-12-30T17:28:02","date_gmt":"2010-12-30T22:28:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adam-jackson.net\/blog\/?p=1303"},"modified":"2010-12-30T17:28:02","modified_gmt":"2010-12-30T22:28:02","slug":"hello-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2010\/12\/30\/hello-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2605 Hello 2011."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='__iawmlf-post-loop-links' style='display:none;' data-iawmlf-post-links='[{&quot;id&quot;:13906,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/www.flickr.com\\\/photos\\\/adamjackson\\\/5299212508&quot;,&quot;archived_href&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/web-wp.archive.org\\\/web\\\/20251106033915\\\/https:\\\/\\\/www.flickr.com\\\/photos\\\/adamjackson\\\/5299212508&quot;,&quot;redirect_href&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.flickr.com\\\/photos\\\/adamjackson\\\/5299212508&quot;,&quot;checks&quot;:[{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-12-04 02:03:18&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-12-15 17:14:55&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-12-25 23:30:53&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-12-31 19:55:12&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:503},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-01-07 12:45:54&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-03-20 02:54:00&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-04-07 10:06:12&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200}],&quot;broken&quot;:false,&quot;last_checked&quot;:{&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-04-07 10:06:12&quot;,&quot;http_code&quot;:200},&quot;process&quot;:&quot;done&quot;}]'><\/div>\n<figure style=\"width: 480px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a title=\"Ready for Training by adamjackson1984, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/adamjackson\/5299212508\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img  loading=\"lazy\"  decoding=\"async\"  src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABAQMAAAAl21bKAAAAA1BMVEUAAP+KeNJXAAAAAXRSTlMAQObYZgAAAAlwSFlzAAAOxAAADsQBlSsOGwAAAApJREFUCNdjYAAAAAIAAeIhvDMAAAAASUVORK5CYII=\"  alt=\"Ready for Training\"  width=\"480\"  height=\"640\"  class=\" pk-lazyload\"  data-pk-sizes=\"auto\"  data-pk-src=\"http:\/\/farm6.static.flickr.com\/5208\/5299212508_8940c0e4ef_z.jpg\" ><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Taken on 12-27. Training at Aikido Class with Dad<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I glared at the title of this post for half an hour attempting to figure out what about 2011 I should do differently than 2010. I tried very hard to figure out what I could change about next year, what could be different and how I should live better when, in two days, we&#8217;ll be in the year 2011.<\/p>\n<p>After a short time and for the first time in my life, I don&#8217;t want to change a single thing.<\/p>\n<p>I was at a gay club in Jacksonville for New Years Eve 2006 because their NYE drag show was honestly pretty good. Don&#8217;t hate. I always do something crazy for new years. Friends of mine know about my other new years experiences like driving around SF&#8217;s warehouse district in a cushman and being pulled around in a &#8220;yacht tub&#8221; which is a yacht that was gutted, filled with water and blowers installed. Yes there&#8217;s a photo on Flickr somewhere and I&#8217;m not going to link to it. When 2010 arrived, I went to the top of a mountain and camped out away from the city. \u00a0Another year, a friend dragged me to a &#8220;swingers party&#8221; and \u00a0I swear I had no idea until it was too late. I escaped to the roof of the building to watch the fireworks while mischief was happening below. I&#8217;m just crazy like that or maybe craziness finds me?<\/p>\n<p>Back to my initial story, the years that I was around people aside from close friends and the most memorable moment was at that NYE 2006 party where a middle aged drag queen stood on the stage before the clock struck 12 and said, &#8220;2005 sucked! 2006, we&#8217;ll have no drama, more fun and we&#8217;re gonna say no to all of the assholes in the world and this is our year to shine!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Um. Right.<\/p>\n<p>If your 2010 &#8220;sucked&#8221;, you have to change everything about your life and how you&#8217;re living. If there are ups and downs and there are moments when we&#8217;d rather not be here or would rather be somewhere else, then we&#8217;re not living our lives to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p>If you end this year saying that it sucked and 2011 will be better, well, my news to you is that 2011 won&#8217;t be any better because 2010 as a year didn&#8217;t suck. Your outlook, \u00a0your decisions and the path you chose brought you pain and misery. We&#8217;re responsible for our own destiny.<\/p>\n<p>With that said, most of my friends know that I started 2010 in a weird place. Things were just weird. What we should do when things don&#8217;t feel right is that we should change them. Continuing on a path that isn&#8217;t working is the bad choice. I found a new job, moved to a new place, made new friends and left behind people that I wish I hadn&#8217;t but the result is that I am in a better place and everyone around me notices it.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t have resolutions to complete. I simply changed how I live and the decisions I made each and every day where small changed influenced big change. It didn&#8217;t happen overnight but, today, I&#8217;m happy where I am.<\/p>\n<p>For this year&#8217;s New Years Eve, I&#8217;ll be in the cabin, up in the woods burning incense and candles, writing, reading and listening to music. Also, I&#8217;m babysitting a friend&#8217;s dog for the weekend so I do have a little company. I&#8217;m doing what I do every year, celebrating NYE with a bit more eccentric flair and in an unconventional way for someone my age and I&#8217;m damn\u00a0happy\u00a0about that. I haven&#8217;t &#8220;partied&#8221; on 12-31 since 2005\/2006 but, even then, it wasn&#8217;t partying. I was at a party but kind of living out the night on my terms.<\/p>\n<p>This year is different though. For the first time in every New Years Eve I can remember, I&#8217;m celebrating in my own way and I&#8217;m actually okay with it. In the past, I thought partying was a requirement and since I wasn&#8217;t in the mood, I felt like an outsider. For the first time, I&#8217;m going to be all alone on New Years and I&#8217;m oddly okay with it.<\/p>\n<p>2011 is 30 hours away. I&#8217;m going to shed a single tear (as I always do) as a tearful goodbye and letting go of the past year and smile at the thought of a new year while giving thanks for all of my blessings, all of my friends and all of my family who have supported me throughout my life.<\/p>\n<p>2010 didn&#8217;t suck and 2011 won&#8217;t be drastically better. I&#8217;m going to continue on this path. I may be living in Europe for the 2012 NYE or I might be back on the west coast. Who knows where I&#8217;ll phsyically be but, I can only hope I&#8217;m as happy a year from now as I am on this very day.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m happy and thankful and joyful.<\/p>\n<p>Happy New Year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I glared at the title of this post for half an hour attempting to figure out what about&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"apple_news_api_created_at":"","apple_news_api_id":"","apple_news_api_modified_at":"","apple_news_api_revision":"","apple_news_api_share_url":"","apple_news_cover_media_provider":"image","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_cover_video_id":0,"apple_news_cover_video_url":"","apple_news_cover_embedwebvideo_url":"","apple_news_is_hidden":"","apple_news_is_paid":"","apple_news_is_preview":"","apple_news_is_sponsored":"","apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":[],"apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_custom_appearance":"","csco_disable_excerpt_posts_layout":false,"csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1303","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-my-thoughts","7":"cs-entry","8":"cs-video-wrap"},"apple_news_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb3IC4-l1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2954,"url":"https:\/\/adamchandler.me\/blog\/2015\/08\/31\/review-tributary-mott-the-lesser-2015-b1\/","url_meta":{"origin":1303,"position":0},"title":"\u2605 Review: Tributary Mott the Lesser (2015, B1)","author":"Adam Chandler","date":"August 31, 2015","format":false,"excerpt":"This is Todd Mott\u2019s newest brewery. 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